It is the last week of ‘training’ before the first 10K commitment is to be achieved. So far I’ve managed to keep up an every other day pace with my training – even kept it up during a trip down to my nephew’s wedding. That weekend I hit my 9K goal! And since? Allergies have been, pardon my language, pissing. me. off. Haven’t done a long run since returning home. But have done a 5K and a 20 min straight up, no walking allowed, run as well.
Every step forward is a step in the right direction, yes?
Honestly, now I am a bit freaked out. But this one is all for mom – the Freedom Run for Diabetes. And in the end it isn’t about how fast I can be, it is about doing this to honour my mom and her beautiful spirit.
It is about taking another step forward.
Now….on with the blog!
Another goal in the process has been to cultivate compassion for others – right now, specifically for a person who I feel has betrayed me. (Sorry, no details folks…) [You may feel that you’ve been betrayed, maybe the following story might help you find your balance.]
For this goal the help of a counsellor was enlisted (she also helped with the grieving process…) as well as my best friend & her hubby (txs for the fire pit!).
Asking for help = taking a step forward.
Over the past 2 months I’ve come the conclusion (supported by collected male opinions) that an apology or discussion with this particular person
is probably never going to happen. Wait. Strike that. Will never happen. So it is up to me to find a way to let it go, for good and for-ever.
S#!*. Time to get the ‘big girl pants’ on! Take another step forward.
Discussing my frustrations, we came to the conclusion that something symbolic needed to be done. And that needed to be an action I probably would never do on my own, or do on a regular basis.
A fire was lit. Yep. Burn baby burn. Holla!
Long story, shortened.
Photos of life event together.
Weirded out by how each photo (which we of course related to the person in the photo) burned differently – kinda wild and creepy at the same time.
Video of life event together.
More photos of life event.
You get the idea. Most satisfying part? Hatchet time. Mwuahahaha!
All of this? = One more step forward.
In the end, even though this has been a tough week for training it has been a summer of realization and moving forward. One important lesson I’ve learned is that its ok to have compassion for someone who has betrayed you. Compassion allows the negative emotions to be released, which then brings more balance (& positivity) to your own life.
Verbalizing this = the release of the emotions = one more GIANT step forward. Fostering the process and allowing ourselves to go through our own individual process, in running and in life.
Just one more way that running seems to be a metaphor for life.
May have to add this to my playlist!